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Condition of friend’s house makes pet sitting difficult

DEAR ABBY: I have a friend I’ll call “Whitney” who asks me to pet sit for her on a fairly regular basis. She’ll usually ask me a week or less before she is going to be leaving. I love animals (I have several of my own), so I continue to do this for her. But one issue is making it increasingly difficult. Abby, her house is FILTHY.
I have animals, so I know a little dog hair or cat litter is part of the deal. That’s not the issue; it’s dirt from the humans. There is food residue on counters, stovetops and cabinet doors, clothing and paperwork all over the floors, and a bathroom that clearly hasn’t been cleaned in years. I refuse to use the bathroom in her house, and I even sanitize my hands after I leave.
This makes the pet sitting harder, because I know I should spend more time with her cats than just scooping litter and filling dishes, but I simply cannot bring myself to spend any real time in her house. How do I broach this subject with her, or should I? I dread these requests, but I don’t want to leave an animal without basic care when she’s away. – RELUCTANT PET SITTER

DEAR SITTER: The time has come to tell Whitney you no longer want to pet sit for her, and when she asks you why, tell her the truth and encourage her to get some cleaning help.

DEAR ABBY: My son’s wife (I’ll call her “Carla”) calls me when they are fighting. The last time, my son went to jail for domestic violence. The cop didn’t even talk to me.
Now my son won’t talk to me, and I’m no longer allowed to talk to my grandchildren. He says as far as he’s concerned, my husband and I are dead. We did nothing but help Carla. It was my son’s third domestic violence offense. I always had a great relationship with my grandchildren, but I haven’t seen them in more than five months. I miss them very much. Should I stand up to my son, tell him to grow up and let me see my grandchildren, or honor his request and stay out of his life? – PUNISHED IN MINNESOTA

DEAR PUNISHED: You can’t force your son to do anything. Accusing him of being childish will only cause more animosity. Talk to Carla and point out that your son needs psychological help. Carla should take the children and go to a shelter, because without professional help and a desire to change, your son’s attacks will escalate and he could seriously injure or kill her one of these days. Carla should contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline for guidance. The toll-free number is 800-799-7233.

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

Nuptial Mass unites Grissom, Meche

Couple to reside in Rayne following wedding trip to Dominican Republic

Mia Clare Grissom of Rayne and Hunter Luke Meche of Crowley were united in Holy Matrimony during a Nuptial Mass held at six-thirty in the evening on Friday, Dec. 10, 2021, at St. Joseph Roman Catholic Church in Rayne.
The bride is the daughter of John and Mandy Miller of Rayne and Stephen and Tricia Grissom of Lafayette. Her grandparents are Ron Badeaux of Lafayette, the late Cynthia Badeaux, Homer Ray and Lorraine Hyatt of Starks, Kenneth and Debbie Grissom of Lafayette, Florence Miller of Iota, Jerry and Darlene Comeaux of Lake Charles and Judy Brunson of Jennings.
The groom is the son of Gregory and Mona Meche of Crowley. His grandparents are Jimmy and Betty Melancon of Crowley and the late Earl and Juanita Meche.
Officiating the double-ring ceremony was Fr. Brent Smith, St. Joseph pastor. Scripture readings were delivered by Andrea Gautreaux, godmother of the bride, and Therese Bergeaux, the bride’s future sister-in-law. For the Mass, gifts were offered by Russell and Glenda Henry, godparents of the groom, while Kristina Lavergne, a family friend, served as eucharistic minister.
Against a musical background provided by organist/pianist Linda Kidd, violinist Joel Martinez and vocalist Jodi Bollich, family members and guests were seated by ushers Tyler Meche, Austin Meche, Drew Grissom and Ethan Grissom, brothers of the groom and bride.
Escorted by both her loving father and stepfather, the bride was radiant in an A-line wedding gown featuring a high neckline, full length lace sleeves and a beautiful lace-filled back. The ensemble was completed with a soft, flowing crepe skirt with buttons down the back of the cathedral-length train. Her headpiece and comb were enhanced with Swarovski crystals and pearls that held a fingertip veil of sheer bridal illusion.
The bride carried a bridal bouquet of ivory roses, white and peach ranunculus, cappuccino/toffee roses, white and navy anemone, dusty miller, burgundy dahlias, burgundy hypericum berries and various eucalyptus greens. The bouquet was wrapped in a custom chaplet rosary made from dried flowers from the bride’s beloved grandmother’s funeral. The rosary, gifted by the bride’s godmother included a blue stone to serve as her something “blue.”
The bride also carried with her down the aisle two keepsakes, a delicate handkerchief of ivory linen given to her when she was born by her grandmother Lorraine. She also held a gauze handkerchief with crocheted edges and monogrammed with the her birth, baptismal, communion, confirmation and wedding dates handmade by her grandmother Florence.
Attending her sister as maid of honor was Gracie Miller. Matron of honor was Courtlyn Richard Bourgeois, friend of the bride. Bridesmaids were Riley Gautreaux, cousin of the bride, and friends Madison Jacques, Magan Cramer and Kylie Hebert.
Bridesmaids wore personally selected dresses in varying lengths and fabrics in a champagne and gold color tone, while carrying bouquets similar to the bride’s.
Serving as junior bridesmaid was Layla Meche, while Anna Meche was flower girl for the ceremony. The groom’s nieces each wore a floor-length pleated gown of metallic gold satin featuring a surplice neckline and keyhole back with button. The junior bridesmaid carried a petite bouquet similar to those of the bride and bridesmaids, and the flower girl carried a custom floral ball with greens and coordinating accent flowers.
Attending the groom as best man was his friend, David Gonzalez. Groomsmen were Jett Miller, brother of the bride, and friends Joe Stringfellow, Thomas Welter, Nygel Billy and Trey Vautrot.
Ring bearers were Colton and Maddox Meche, nephews of the groom.
Gentlemen of the wedding party wore dark navy slim-fit tuxedos with matching formal trousers and boutonnières of white ranunculus, greens and accent flowers.
For her daughter’s wedding, the mother of the bride wore an off-the-shoulder, floor length, column dress of navy blue satin.
Her stepmother selected a floor length off-the-shoulder dress of delphinium blue.
The groom’s mother was seen in a stylish two-piece, tea length dress of navy chiffon embellished with navy crystals.
Immediately following the wedding ceremony, the newlyweds were honored during a reception held at The Springs Ballroom in Iota. Guests were greeted at the sign-in table decorated in ivory and champagne flowers and featuring an alternative guest sign-in with a print of St. Joseph Church in a large, matted frame.
Among the detailed decorations for the eye and delectable edibles for the pallate was the bride’s cake, a traditional three-tiered confection of simple design dressed with ivory buttercream icing, embellished with edible gold accents and topped with a gold calligraphy “M”.
The groom’s cake was a red velvet confection in a square design covered in deep chocolate and topped with chocolate-covered strawberries.
Following a wedding trip to Punta Cana, Dominican Republic, the couple will reside in Rayne.
Prior to the wedding, the groom’s parents hosted a rehearsal dinner on Thursday, Dec. 9, at the home of Brian and April Menard, the newlyweds’ marriage preparation mentor couple.
The bride is a 2015 graduate of Notre Dame High School of Acadia Parish in Crowley and a 2016 graduate of the Cosmetology Training Center as a cosmetologist and certified lash artist. She is employed at Hello Beautiful Salon in Rayne.
The groom, who is self-employed, is a 2016 graduate of Notre Dame High School of Acadia Parish in Crowley and a 2021 graduate of the University of Louisiana at Lafayette with a Bachelor of Science degree in environmental science and a minor in geology.

Rayne Christmas Parade Tuesday

With a change of venue due to construction near The Depot, the City of Rayne’s annual Christmas Parade is set to roll Tuesday, Dec. 14.
The parade, originally slated for Tuesday, Dec. 7, will begin at 6 p.m. and will a include number of floats, decorated trailers and vehicles of every kind.
The route will be held along the same used for the annual Frog Festival Parade, from south to north.
From its starting point on American Legion Drive then following North Adams Avenue and The Boulevard, the parade will finish at the Frog Festival Pavilion where Santa Claus will be waiting for visits, wish list requests and photos with the little ones (and not so little ones).
The Christmas Parade and visits with Santa activities have become an annual event celebrating the holidays as the streets of Rayne glitter and glow for the season.
Floats this year will feature the mayor and city officials, city royalty, students from local schools, Little Miss Merry Christmas and Master Noel royalty and contestants, and the big jolly man himself, Santa Claus.
Leading the parade in her place of honor will be the new 2021 Miss Rayne, Ella Cantrell in one of her first events during her reign.
Anyone interested in participating in the parade should begin arriving at 5 p.m. on American Legion Drive near the local American Legion Home.
There are no fees to enter the parade, but entires must be registered by calling (337-334-3121) or stopping by City Hall during regular business hours.
No four-wheelers are allowed in the parade, with the exception of police / parade personnel.
There will again be a Mayor’s Award Trophy awarded to the best decorated unit in this year’s parade and the winner will be announced after the parade is completed at the pavilion.
Anyone needing further info can contact City Hall at 337-334-3121 or come by City Hall during normal business hours.

Crowley City Court proceedings: Oct. 26

The following cases were determined by Crowley City Judge Marie B. Trahan during proceedings on Tuesday, Oct. 26:
• Shedrick Alford, 30, Grace Pete, Crowley: careless operation, no contest, five days in jail; driver’s license - never had, no contest, 30 days in jail; resisting arrest by flight, no contest, $365 fine and court costs or 30 days in jail, all to run concurrent.
• Almena Chapman, 50, South Avenue E, Crowley: disturbing the peace - fighting, no contest, $265 fine and court costs or two days in jail, stay-away order victim.
• Brylan Cormier, 29, John Smith Road, Morse: possession of marijuana, no contest under Art. 894, $505 fine and court costs or 15 days in jail.
• Tyler Duhon, 26, Katerine Drive, Crowley: disobeyed stop sign, no contest, two days in jail, credit for time served (CFTS).
• Michael Ford II, 39, West Northern Avenue, Crowley: insurance (none), no contest, $385 fine and court costs or 30 days in jail.
• Bryan Hamilton, 32, West Second Street, Crowley: careless operation, no contest, five days in jail, credit for time served (CFTS); insurance (none), no contest, 30 days in jail, CFTS; license plate (switched), no contest, three days in jail, CFTS; possession of marijuana, no contest, 15 days in jail, CFTS; resisting arrest - failure to identify, no contest, 30 days in jail, CFTS, all to run concurrent.
• Damian Jones Jr., 23, West Hutchinson Street, Crowley: driver’s license - never had, no contest, $270 fine and court costs or 30 days in jail; resisting arrest by flight, no contest, $350 fine and court costs or 30 days in jail, to run concurrent.
• Brent Kibodeaux, 47, Governor Morgan Drive, Crowley: resisting arrest, no contest, 30 days in jail, CFTS; insurance (none), no contest, 30 days in jail, CFTS; careless operation, no contest, five days in jail, all to run concurrent.
• Brandon J. Lejeune, 26, Lisa Drive, Crowley: speeding 0-10, no contest, $220 fine and court costs or two days in jail.
• Dannon Mouton, 33, West Ninth Street, Crowley: simple assault, no contest, 15 days in jail, CFTS, stay-away order victim.
• Mariah Ozone, 23, North Eastern Avenue, Rayne: disobeyed stop sign, no contest, $215 fine and court costs or two days in jail.
• Jarealle Robinson, 20, North Avenue D, Crowley: aggravated assault, no contest, $415 fine and court costs or 30 days in jail, stay-away order victim.
• Tony Trumps Jr., 28, East Spruce Street, Crowley: theft, no contest, 30 days in jail, CFTS; criminal damage, 30 days in jail, CFTS; seatbelt violations, no contest, two days in jail, CFTS; possession of marijuana, no contest, 15 days in jail, CFTS; driver’s license - never had, no contest, 30 days in jail, CFTS, all to run concurrent.
Warrants were issued for failure to appear for the following persons:
• Ebony Alexander, 41, South Avenue N, Crowley: misuse of temp tag, registration/fail to secure/expired, driver’s license - suspended, bench - $100 contempt fee each charge.
• Abigail Arledge, 32, South 13th Street, Mermentau: unsafe vehicle, insurance (proof), expired MVI, driver’s license - suspended, insurance (none), registration/fail to secure/expired, bench - $200 contempt fee each charge.
• Gerald Borde III, 28, Kay Drive, Crowley: driver’s license - never had, no motorcycle endorsement, bench - $100 contempt fee each charge.
• Derrick Breaux, 33, Chico Alley, Church Point: battery of a dating partner, bench - $100 contempt fee.
• Brandon Broussard, 33, Alyson Drive, Crowley: NSF checks, fugitive - $500 bond.
• Joseph Brown, 39, West 11th Street, Crowley: driver’s license - never had, bench -$100 contempt fee.
• Shanquilla Chapman, 42, Avenue A, Crowley: theft by shoplifting, criminal mischief, possession of marijuana, bench - $100 contempt fee each charge.
• Todd Citizen, 28, West 12th Street, Crowley: criminal trespass/remaining after forbidden, bench - $100 contempt fee.
• Randy Coleman, 55, East Spruce Street, Crowley: simple battery, bench - $100 contempt fee.
• Corey Doucet, 81, East Clay, Crowley: MVI - expired, insurance (none), bench - $100 contempt fee each charge.
• Chase A. Duhon, 38, Essex Street, Lafayette: attempted theft, criminal trespass/remaining after forbidden, bench - $100 contempt fee each charge.
• Norris George Jr., 64, North Avenue D, Crowley: license plate (none), driver’s license - suspended, insurance (none), fugitive - $500 bond each charge.
• Ernel Gobert, 52, East Oak Street, Crowley: no motorcycle endorsement, registration/fail to secure/expired, no helmet, improper lighting, driver’s license - possession, bench - $200 contempt fee each charge.
• Brooklyn Harmon, 26, South Avenue J, Crowley: license plate (expired), insurance (none), driver’s license - suspended, bench -$100 contempt fee each charge.
• Jock J. Hill, 36, South Pierce, Lafayette: possession of stolen items, bench - $100 contempt fee.
• Jonathon James, 62, Lemon Tree, Crowley: careless operation w/accident, insurance (none), driver’s license - suspended, resisting arrest, bench - $100 contempt fee each charge.
• Jakoryia Johnson, 20, Westwood, Crowley: resisting arrest, bench - $100 contempt fee.
• Toni Jones, 30, Richard Street, Morse: possession of stolen items, fugitive - $500 bond.
• Tina M. Kibodeaux, 45, Governor Morgan, Crowley: reckless operation with accident, driver’s license - suspended, license plate (expired), bench - $200 contempt fee each charge.
• Kevin Lambert, 24, Ross Avenue, Crowley: possession of marijuana, misuse of temp tag, driver’s license - never had, insurance (none), bench - $200 contempt fee each charge.
• Roger Miller, 73, South Avenue H, Crowley: disturbing the peace - intoxication, bench - $100 contempt fee.
• Kevin Mitchell, 54, Prospect Avenue, Lake Arthur: two counts NSF checks, bench - $100 contempt fee each count.
• Jason Montz, 49, South Avenue M, Crowley: domestic abuse battery, fugitive - $500 bond.
• Yvonne Para, 58, South Horecky Street, Church Point: improper lighting, driver’s license - suspended, bench - $100 contempt fee each charge.
• Ladarian Phillips, 28, Kay Drive, Crowley: license plate (switched), resisting arrest by flight, bench - $100 contempt fee each charge.
• Treylon Portalis, 21, East Eighth Street, Crowley: speeding 16-25, driver’s license - suspended, bench - $100 contempt fee each charge.
• Andrew Powell, 33, Guillot Road, Youngsville: driver’s license - suspended, disobeyed stop sign, bench - $100 contempt fee each charge.
• Destyn Robinson, 23, North Avenue B, Crowley: driver’s license - suspended, bench - $100 contempt fee.
• Darrel Segura, 57, West Fifth Street, Crowley: possession of marijuana, criminal trespass/remaining after forbidden, bench - $100 contempt fee each charge.
• Paula Segura, 61, North Avenue A, Crowley: disobeyed stop sign w/accident, driver’s license - expired, bench -$100 contempt fee each charge.
• Grant Trahan, 24, Constantine Drive, Crowley: criminal damage, bench - $100 contempt fee.
The Post-Signal received the docket on Tuesday, Nov. 9, and possible changes in dispositions may have occurred between that date and today. Neither the Crowley City Court nor the Post-Signal is responsible for reporting any such changes.

Focus on broadband

Police Jury president briefs Kiwanians on projections for 2022

Broadband is expanding in Acadia Parish and the hope is that, within the next five years, everyone in the parish will have access to high-speed Internet.
Chance Henry, president of the Acadia Parish Police Jury, told members of the Crowley Kiwanis Club Thursday that the parish has already committed $3 million toward broadband expansion from its share of the American Rescue Plan Act (ARPA) COVID Relief funding.
Acadia Parish will receive a total of $12 million in ARPA funds in two equal payments. The first payment — Tranche 1 — is in the bank. The second is expected in June or July, 2022, Henry said.
Use of these funds is very regulated, according to Henry.
“We can only use it for broadband, water, sewer or to recoup losses associated with COVID,” he said. “We (the parish) don’t own any water or sewerage systems and, believe it or not, sales tax revenues were up last years, so we’re going strong at broadband.”
Henry said two companies currently control most of the Internet service in the parish but, in time, he hopes to see three or four companies involved.
To date, Henry said, Acadia Parish is ahead of the game insofar as planning for broadband infrastructure “and it will be at the top of our conversation for the foreseeable future.”
Looking ahead to 2022, Henry noted that the jury will adopt a budget for the coming year when it meets Monday, Dec. 13, at 6 p.m.
“The budget is running a little thin this year,” he said. “At one time we were getting between $750,000 and $900,000 in severance taxes. This year we got about $150,000 and last year it was about $250,000.”
He added that, while sales tax revenues surprised nearly everyone last year, he doesn’t expect a repeat for 2022.
“All the COVID relief payments helped to boost sales but we’re not expecting any of that for the coming year,” he said. “We’re going to be getting a grip on the budget this year and slow down on expenditures. Hopefully going into 2023 we’ll be a little stronger.”
Also coming up in 2022, the jury will appoint an Administrative Law Judge to handle code enforcement in the parish.
Henry explained that, under the current system, appeals to code violation are made to the police jury, “and that can get real political real fast.”
The ALJ will take the process out of the jury’s hands.
The parish also is involved in a program mapping drainage ditches and canals throughout the parish and identifying blockages in those areas.
He said the police jury is working with the individual drainage boards across Acadia to clear the blockages with matching grant funding being provided by FEMA.
“This won’t be completed until probably late 2022,” he said.
Finally, Henry noted that some voters in the parish can expect changes the next time they go to the polls to elect police jurors. He said the jury has been working closely with the Acadia Parish School Board — the two entities currently have identical district boundaries — to bring the district into compliance with the 2020 Census results.

Tony Robichaux Sports Complex

City Council unanimously OKs name change to honor native son

The Crowley Recreation Department Sports Complex will now be known as the Tony Robichaux Sports Complex.
By unanimous vote, the city council has renamed the complex in honor of Crowley’s native son and former Ragin’ Cajun baseball coach.
On hand for the council meeting this week was Justin Robichaux, Tony’s son.
“These past two years have been an interesting run,” he said. “On behalf of the family to have his name on the Crowley Recreation Department means a lot.
“Thank you on behalf of all of us.”
The resolution adopted by the council notes that Tony Robichaux, son of Ray and Sylvia Robichaux, “fully embraced and exemplified all of the best of the virtues of love of family, faith, hard work and helping others throughout his life.”
Robichaux attended and graduated from Notre Dame High School of Acadia Parish before attending college at McNeese, where he became head coach of the Cowboys.
He later became the head coach of the University of Louisiana - Lafayette baseball team who he led to 12 NCAA Regionals, four NCAA Super Regionals and the only College World Series appearance for the Cajuns.
Robichaux posted a record of 1,177 wins in 33 seasons as the head coach at UL and holds the record for career wins for both UL and McNeese State — and most wins of all Louisiana college baseballs coaches.
“Tony Robichaux achieved legendary status as a coach and became larger than life, but more importantly, he was a man of unwavering faith, integrity and moral character who believed the development of a person’s character consisted of more than just athletic skills and achievements,” the resolution states.
It goes on to say: “Tony Robichaux always exemplified the highest standards and sought to impart his philosophy of life to the players, fans and others and ... also exemplified the dignity, humility and character which he believed was the most important part of life.
“Tony Robichaux’s grace and humility not only was exhibited in his own life, but his example and teachings are exemplified by the lives of so many of the individuals with whom he came into contact throughout his career.”
The name change recognizes Robichaux’s outstanding achievements as a legendary head coach with more wins than any other college baseball coach in the history of Louisiana.
“It is important that we recognize and honor him for his personal example, his efforts as a mentor to the youth of this community, the fans and others of his philosophy of life and his desire to achieve the highest standards and goals in every endeavor,” the council resolved.

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Crowley man booked on multiple drug charges

Officials term Scott ‘habitual narcotics dealer’

Deputies with the Acadia Parish Sheriff’s Office Narcotics Unit have arrested a habitual narcotics dealer on numerous charges.
Byron Scott, 47, of Crowley was arrested on Dec. 3 on charges stemming from an investigation occurring over the course of the past several months.
During the investigation, purchases of heroin were allegedly made from the defendant and ultimately a search warrant was issued for his residence in the 100 block of West 10th Street in Crowley.
During the Dec. 3 search of the residence, deputies seized 141 grams of heroin with a street value of $28,000; 22 grams of methamphetamines with a street value of $1,100; 28 Suboxone strips; and $2,491 in U.S. currency.
The defendant was taken into custody on several arrest warrants stemming from this investigation.
Scott was charged with three counts of distribution of heroin, possession with intent to distribute heroin, possession with intent to distribute methamphetamines, possession with intent to distribute Suboxone, possession of intent to distribute oxycodone, possession with intent to distribute alprazolam, possession of buprenorphine, proceeds from drug transactions, obstruction of justice and resisting an officer.
He was booked into the Acadia Parish Jail with bond being set at $410,000.
This is the 18th time Scott has been arrested on narcotics-related charges.

Cleveland Dominic Maynard

A memorial service will be held at a later date for Cleveland Dominic Maynard, 56, who passed away at his residence in Crowley on Dec. 8, 2021.
Cleveland was born in Lafayette on April 29, 1965, and resided in Crowley. His career was in the oil and gas industry and was employed by Parker Drilling.
Mr. Maynard was an avid fisherman and loved spending time with family and friends.
He is survived by one son, Dwight Maynard; seven siblings, Angelique Maynard and spouse Lilian LaBove, Kellie Maynard and spouse Katie Dupont, Danielle Melancon, Gerald Maynard Jr. and spouse Carol, Dallas Maynard and spouse Tammy, and Joshua Maynard.
Cleveland is preceded in death by his parents, Gerald and Diane Abshire Maynard; and one sister, Pamela Maynard
Condolences may be sent to the family by www.geesey-ferguson.com.
Arrangements have been entrusted to Geesey-Ferguson Funeral Home of Crowley.

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