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DEAR ABBY: I’m responding to your request for comments about your answer to “Doggy Business” (Oct. 28). Please IMPLORE your readers not to put their dog’s poop in their neighbor’s garbage cans, even if the cans are on the street. This may seem harmless, but I live near a park and daily dog walkers use my trash can like it’s a public service.
My garbage quickly fills with endless poop bags, sometimes between five and 10 a day. Garbage is collected only every other week in my community. I’m sure your readers can do the math. Then I end up having to work around all this poop, and not only does my garbage can perpetually stink to high heaven, but I have to be judicious with what I throw away myself.
Rough materials will rupture those bags and poop gets all over the inside of the can. I’m currently saving up to modify my property’s retaining wall so I can keep the receptacles away from the street, but I’m at the mercy of dog owners until I can afford this renovation.
Please, if you have a dog, be a good neighbor. Be responsible for its waste. If you don’t want to carry it, get your dog a harness or pack with a pocket, and dispose of it in your own can when you get home. – PEEVED IN THE PACIFIC NORTHWEST

DEAR PEEVED: I advised “Doggy Business” that disposing of his dog’s waste in neighbors’ garbage cans is a big no-no. After asking for readers’ thoughts, an AVALANCHE of responses descended. The vast majority agreed with me, expressing disdain at the practice and explicitly sharing the messy, smelly details of their experiences.
Some areas require trash be placed in a large, sealed plastic bag in the receptacle. When garbage collectors pull the bag out, the small poop bags can spill out and the contents disperse onto the street. Worse, if the bags are thrown into a neighbor’s garbage container AFTER collection, those bags remain at the bottom and smell for days.
Readers, encourage dog walkers to take a larger bag with them or wear a fanny pack with multiple compartments to transport their pets’ “souvenirs” back to their own home.

DEAR ABBY: Our nosy children have been pressuring us to explain their inheritance. I’m appalled. I was taught that this is something for the parents to tell, not the kids to ask. Several friends of ours who are executors for their parents are now being questioned by siblings while the parent is sick and fighting for life. Please explain to readers what is the best etiquette with regard to inheritance. – UNSURE IN CALIFORNIA

DEAR UNSURE: I know this can be a sensitive subject, but it is also an important one. Although some may not agree with me, I happen to be in favor of open communication regarding money matters. Too often money (and the promise of it) is used to manipulate and control family members. This is not a matter of etiquette. If adult children are going to inherit, they need to learn early how to wisely and responsibly handle money. And, if circumstances change and the estate is affected, the heirs should be given as much forewarning as possible so they are prepared and not shocked.

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

Funeral services will be held Wednesday, Dec. 22, at 2 p.m. in the Chapel of Geesey-Ferguson Funeral Home for Gloria Smith Hoffpauir, 76, who died Saturday, Dec. 18, 2021, at 3:45 p.m. at Ochsner Acadia General Hospital.
Rev. Kerry Doucet, pastor of Crossway Fellowship Church, will officiate for the services. The family requests visiting hours Wednesday from 9 a.m. to service time. Burial will be in Woodlawn Cemetery.
Mrs. Hoffpauir is survived by one daughter, Trudy Woodard of Crowley; one son, John W. Hoffpauir Jr. of South Dakota; one brother, Webb “Ben” Barnett (Cathy) of Crowley; her companion, Carl Theriot of Rayne; seven grandchildren; and five great-grandchildren.
She was preceded in death by her husband, John W. “Johnny” Hoffpauir Sr.; her son-in-law, Kerwin James Woodard; her mother, Edna Spell Barnett; and one sister, Irene Stoute.
Words of comfort may be sent to the family at www.geesey-ferguson.com.
Arrangements have been entrusted to Geesey-Ferguson Funeral Home, 301 N. Avenue F, Crowley, (337) 783-3313.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary Catholic Church in Mire on Wednesday, Dec. 22, at 11 a.m.. to celebrate the life of Randy Paul Champagne, 63, of Mire.
Randy passed away on Saturday, Dec. 18, 2021, at his home surrounded by his wife and children.
Interment will be at Assumption Cemetery in Mire.
Services will be officiated by Monsignor Russell J. Harrington, pastor of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary Catholic Church.
Randy will be remembered as an outstanding high school athlete where he was a member of the 1975 State Championship Runner-Up Football Team. He earned numerous honors including Most Valuable Offensive Player on that year’s All-State Football Team.
He also held the title of State Champion Shot Putter.
He was awarded an athletic scholarship to USL where he lettered four years and was a member of the All-Conference Team. There he earned a Bachelor of Science Degree and went on to teach and coach for five years. He was a highly respected influence to many young students and athletes.
He then made a career change which allowed him to follow in the footsteps of his parents and brothers in the grocery industry. He successfully owned and operated Champagne’s Market in Eunice for 30 years.
In 2013, along with his son, he opened a second location in Carencro.
During his years in the grocery business, Randy demonstrated a strong work ethic that influenced many.
He later was able to resume his coaching duties as he coached numerous sports teams involving his children throughout the years.
He was a member of the Knights of Columbus in Mire and a member of their National Championship Softball Team. He was a lover of all sports and an avid fisherman and hunter alongside his son and numerous hunting and fishing buddies.
Most important to him, though, was his love and devotion to his family.
He is survived by his loving wife of 42 years, Joan Lalande Champagne. He will be greatly missed by his four children, Blair Buller and husband Ben, Regan LaCombe and husband Stuart, Paige Barousse and husband Zach, and Ryan Champagne and wife Mallory. He cherished dearly his grandchildren, Madden Buller, Elliot and Edison LaCombe, Iker and Otto Barousse, and Anders, Nadia and Marguerite Champagne. Also mourning his loss are his brothers, Greg Champagne and wife Beth, and Kevin Champagne and fiancé Kimberly; sisters Judy Boudreaux and husband Conrad, Donna Frietag and husband Karl, and Bonnie Simpson and husband Charles. He also leaves behind numerous nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Russell Bernard Champagne and Winifred Goehring Champagne; his father-in-law, Otis Lalande Jr., and grandson Aiden Paul Buller.
The family requests that visiting hours be observed at Gossen Funeral Home in Rayne from 2 p.m. to 8 p.m. on Tuesday, Dec. 21, with a rosary being recited at 6 p.m. Visitation will continue at 8 a.m. on Wednesday, Dec. 22, until the time of service.
Pallbearers are nephews Russell Champagne, Lance Champagne, Andrew Lawton, Corey Boudreaux, Jason Lalande and Pascal Lalande.
Friends may view the obituary and guestbook online at www.gossenfuneralhome.net.
Arrangements have been entrusted to Gossen Funeral Home, Inc., of Rayne, (337) 334-3141.

Members of Foy and Jennifer Cradeur’s extended family, many from Texas, were at Crowley City Hall Monday to relive and realize a part of their history. Two of the antique cars at city hall — one on the mezzanine level and one on the second floor — are owned by the family of Maxi Cradeur, Foy’s father. Some of the family members remember riding in the cars, especially for parades and such others had never seen the vehicles. Above, gathered on the second floor are, from left, Crystal Cradeur Magnon, Maxi Cradeur’s granddaughter; Gracie Comeaux, great-granddaughter; Jill Cradeur Martinez, granddaughter; Kristen Cradeur, great-granddaughter; Briana Martinez, great-granddaughter; Declan Cradeur, great-grandson; Katya Cradeur, great-granddaughter; Ella Cradeur, great-granddaughter; Foy Cradeur, son; Brandon Cradeur, grandson; Jennifer Cradeur, daughter-in-law; Luisa Cradeur, granddaughter-in-law; Emmaline Cradeur, great-granddaugher; Lola Cradeur, great-granddaughter; and Ryan Cradeur, grandson.